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My boyfriend did not get me anything for Valentines Day. I really think I should break up with him. Should I?




Annelise H


My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. He has never given me anything for valentines day, birthdays, christmas, or anniversaries, and he has a good job. I always give him gifts for his birthday, christmas, anniversaries, and valentines day. I put a lot of thought into these gifts. For this Valentines Day, I gave him his favorite cake, customized m&m's with our picture, and a designer polo. I gave him his gifts, and he did not even give me a flower. He did not even apologize for not getting me aything. I have told him how that makes me feel, but that doesnt seem to bother him. I dont want for him to get me lavish, expensive, and materialistic gifts. I just wish that for this Valentines Day he would have given me a flower. With one flower I would have been very happy. I just want him to show me that he does care about me. I have been very upset, and very unhappy. Should I break up with him? please help me


Answer
I understand how you feel. I have been married for 19 years. My husband sometimes, quite often, forgets to do the same thing. I have told him how I feel and he says he forgot, was working too much, or we had no money at the time. This year I told him I knew I wasn't getting anything but that I wanted something, any stupid little thing for Valentines day. When I woke up I found a paper taped to the mirror saying "This is your official 2011 Valentines Day Card...I Love You!!!" This little jester meant more than a dozen roses. I have told him just pick me a flower on the side of the road and I'd be the happiest woman in the world. So I know how you feel. I wouldn't leave him because of this. Maybe explain it again and tell him how hurt you are. We woman like to be reminded that we are loved and are needed. Good Luck!

Where can you buy breast feeding covers?




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I already have one that I won. It has the name brand ta ta tent on the tag. I would like to buy one for my friend, but where? I live in Canada.


Answer
Go here: https://www.uddercovers.com/cart At the end, enter promo code "christmas" and get the cover for free & pay $11.95 shipping. I ordered mine there & have since ordered as gifts. The promo codes come out periodically & are emailed to you.

I know this is not a nursing cover - but I got this email from the same place I get the udder cover emails. This time they offer a free car seat cover (just pay shipping). Again, just enter promo code "Christmas". Shipping is $12.95 for cover or $13.95 for whole set.
https://www.carseatcanopy.com/cart Or you can get a "whole caboodle" set for $29.95.

Hope that helps someone. I really do like the size of the nursing covers. My kids seem to fight using a cover, but they were awesome too on the stroller to block the sun because you can tie them on & in a pinch they can be a bib as well - big, but they work. LOL

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OMG Karen shut your trap for real. If it is a nursing related question - you ought to just skip it. You do not know crap about proper nursing advice & you feel free to spew about it. Nursing covers are nice because they have a wire form up top so momma can see the baby the whole time & not have the babies face actually draped in fabric where it rebreathes it's own carbon dioxide. A throw won't do that. Then the whole pull a boob out for everyone to see is not a movement. In fact - cover your breasts they are gross & sexual has been the only movement & it came in about 1940 or so & has grown ever since. If you knew what you were talking about (ever) you would KNOW that. My gram (90 yrs old) will gladly tell you how women unbuttoned blouses & sat with MEN & nursed openly when she was young. It is only today they WE are perves & think that it's weird. You can look through the Library of Congress photo archives & find LOTS of pics from the 40's & earlier of women openly nursing all over the place. We used to be grown ups about it & understand babies had needs. Then formula companies got a hold on health "professionals" like you & bought your opinion & paid you to disperse it through the populous. They also became the big "educators" about breastfeeding (ironic eh?) It IS all well documented what they did - there are even interoffice memos that have been revealed - THEY instituted separating babies from mommas & putting them in nurseries to discourage nursing, etc, etc. before that time babies AWLSY roomed with moms. That isnt' "new" that is returning to what we did BEFORE formula companies got the bright idea they could force feed their products to babies through the loving hands of nurses, often without mom's permission. They paid for those wings to be ADDED to hospitals to facilitate NURSES bottle feeding & promoting their products to moms. Read "The Politics of Breastfeeding" - it has a ton of citations to document these things are fact & shows a lot of what has really happened in our culture & the sad view we grew to have about nursing. THEN nursing became something you only did because you couldn't afford formula - so it was embarrassing to nurse & THAT is when public nursing became taboo & looked down on, not because eo boobs - because you were dirty & poor. You ought to be embarrassed to say what you do & then claim to be an RN. I hope you are a troll & real RN's aren't actually like that in 2011.




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