My boyfriend did not get me anything for Valentines Day. I really think I should break up with him. Should I?

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Annelise H

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years. He has never given me anything for valentines day, birthdays, christmas, or anniversaries, and he has a good job. I always give him gifts for his birthday, christmas, anniversaries, and valentines day. I put a lot of thought into these gifts. For this Valentines Day, I gave him his favorite cake, customized m&m's with our picture, and a designer polo. I gave him his gifts, and he did not even give me a flower. He did not even apologize for not getting me aything. I have told him how that makes me feel, but that doesnt seem to bother him. I dont want for him to get me lavish, expensive, and materialistic gifts. I just wish that for this Valentines Day he would have given me a flower. With one flower I would have been very happy. I just want him to show me that he does care about me. I have been very upset, and very unhappy. Should I break up with him? please help me

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I understand how you feel. I have been married for 19 years. My husband sometimes, quite often, forgets to do the same thing. I have told him how I feel and he says he forgot, was working too much, or we had no money at the time. This year I told him I knew I wasn't getting anything but that I wanted something, any stupid little thing for Valentines day. When I woke up I found a paper taped to the mirror saying "This is your official 2011 Valentines Day Card...I Love You!!!" This little jester meant more than a dozen roses. I have told him just pick me a flower on the side of the road and I'd be the happiest woman in the world. So I know how you feel. I wouldn't leave him because of this. Maybe explain it again and tell him how hurt you are. We woman like to be reminded that we are loved and are needed. Good Luck!

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I've been through so much in my life to be so young. Im a 23 year old woman and i just celebrated my two year anniversary of being a cancer survivor. I had Leukemia and one of the chemotherapy's i received was possibly able to make me infertile. I finished chemo June of 2010' Everything was fine. i began to move on with my life I met an amazing guy who knows my story and loves me through my flaws my life was coming back to normal again slowly but surely and I was still continuing to have my regular periods until one year later June 2011' they suddenly stop. I thought i was in the "safe zone", because the doctor said the younger you are the better chance you have at over coming the infertility issues of the chemo. At first i thought I pregnant but nope. I was just missing periods for months at a time. Me and my amazing husband got married and we both just thought it would come back because i've been off chemo for over a year. So we waited, and waited, and waited and it never returned. I was emotionally devastated i couldn't give my husband his first child can you imagine? i already had a daughter from a previous relationship (being hot at a young age paid off lol jk) I seen how everything happens for a reason God gave me a child earlier because little did I would soon be facing fertility issues. Although my husband was very supportive I know deep down he waited to have his own child. So christmas passed, we had a party drinks, friends, laughing gift giving, ahh just what I needed. I didn't know that i would be recieveing my my gift early the next moring. I went to the bathroom and I HAD MY PERIOD AGAIN!! after 6 long dredful months! i never thought i would see the day i was happy about blood down there lol. soo It's been over a week non stop bleeding... i think im about over the excitment now, as much as i prayed for this i got it i think im able to conceive... i think.. but my menstrual is going and going and going im a bloody mess literally. what to do? from the 26 til today help! lol im thankful and all but damn! Im ready for sex and horney as ever but my blood won't leave lol help me and give opinions please! Happy new years and God bless sorry about the length i just wanted yall to feel me! and my situation completely

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congrats on over coming cancer there is a 12 year old at my school who also did. to answer your question go see a doctor

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